Palliative care birth plan: making your birth wishes known
One of the best gifts you can give yourself and your baby is communicating your birth wishes. With the help of your provider and a social worker or labor and delivery nurse, you navigate care goals and create a plan for you and your baby. We share the plan with your labor and delivery team. You can make changes to the care plan at any time.
Your birth plan may include your wishes for:
We help you decide what kind of pain management you’d like to have during childbirth. You also let us know how you’d prefer we monitor you and your baby during labor, who you’d like in the room for delivery, and any other preferences you have.
You tell us how you’d like us to care for your baby after birth. If your baby is born alive, we manage their medical needs with interventions that have your approval. We also provide your baby with comfort care as you’d like, including pain medication, oxygen, skin-to-skin contact, and breast or bottle feeding.
Some parents discuss additional testing with their maternal-fetal medicine doctor. These additional tests, done after birth, can possibly determine the cause of your baby’s condition.
You may want to try to breastfeed your baby. Our lactation consultants are available to help guide you. We also welcome other family members to spend time with you and your baby if you prefer. We make sure you have a quiet, private space to enjoy time with your baby and create loving memories.
Our nurses or chaplains are available to preserve the memory of your baby as you wish. Chaplains may provide religious or non-religious spiritual and emotional support. You may choose to bathe and dress your baby. With your permission, we collect footprints, handprints, and locks of hair for you to remember your baby. We can also take pictures if you request us to do so.
We assist you with final arrangements if your baby is stillborn or dies shortly after birth. We discuss any religious ceremonies or rituals you’d like performed, your funeral home preferences, who should transport your baby’s body, and any other wishes you’d like us to know.